Shrien Dewani and the Alsatian

Yes, I am a pampered spoilt little brat. I also pay for the privilege of my water and power, so when they stop I get a little miffed. I am a simple creature. I have simple pleasures, like a hot bath after a long, cold day. I know there are millions of people who live happily without this privilege, for whom a bucket of water comes at the end of a 2-mile hike, I am not one of them. I realise I take it for granted, but then I take switching the light on and having power for granted to – and 24 hour pizza delivery.

This morning I woke to find that I had water gushing happily from the taps once more. What I did not have was the necessary power to heat it up. Apparently Eskom does not like to be outdone in the poor service delivery stakes and decided to cut power to the entire neighbourhood again.

There is a knock-on effect to the nation’s GDP as a result, not to mention the poor people I have to deal with today. A smelly, grumpy, pissed off, sleepy person means pain and suffering for all she comes into connect with. This then leads to poor work performance and general bad attitude, which leads to a lack of income and a high staff turnover. Magnify this by the whole neighbourhood. This translates into a city wide go slow and higher incidents of road rage and office workers going postal. It can cause more damage to the economy then the ongoing fuel shortage.

This strike has some amusing qualities for me, most of which disappear in the reality of having no petrol, but they are there nonetheless. The industry are asking for people not to stockpile or be so selfish as to fill up their whole tanks and only to try and get more petrol when the red light has been on for a day. The thing is if you wait that long you will be going nowhere and if you happen to find a garage with full tanks – by the way Shell seems quite flush – you fill up because only God knows when you will be so lucky again.

Strike season comes at the same time every year and as the birds start their strange mating dances, so do the unions and the Government. The thing is everyone knows what the outcome will be, but they have to go through the ritual of it. Everyone loves a good strike, a good march and a place to go where you can practice your ululation. The unions come in with a totally bizarre demand like 20% increases, the Government offers 7% and then like an Mumbai bazaar they even out to the amount they both know going in they will accept, which is about 10%. They can’t just agree on this at the start and not strike at all, because then everyone would question why they belong to a union anyway if they don’t get to march and stuff.

Unions are a great way to make cash. You get some members who all pay you say 5% of their salary and all you have to do is arrange a strike sometime in the year. Like a party planner. Advertising is not really supported by any unions, we don’t earn enough and there are not enough of us to make it worthwhile. We’re lucky if we get a 5% raise at all each year, also our bosses would just laugh hysterically at us and then give us a pink slip. We’re also used to being in fierce competition with each other and couldn’t all work together if our lives depended on it.

In other news, that idiot Shrien Dewani is too depressed to stand trial. Dumbass. He’s scared of going to jail in the Western Cape. Oops. Maybe he should have thought about that before he hired someone to kill his wife there? Besides as daily reports of his extra-curricular activities filter in, he could be very happy in a jail cell with two large gay men from the Cape Flats. If he’s worried about HIV he needn’t be – prisoners get free condoms. It’s more than Anni got.

If the situations were reversed and a South African was arrested for offing his wife in London, he’d be on the next flight from OR Tambo to Heathrow end of story, bugger his depression. Instead this bastard gets to sit in a 5 star rehab facility, apparently the Prioiry wasn’t good enough for him so he’s gone to another one, and is treated like a Ming bloody vase. My advice is that he should rethink the mental incapacity thing. If he ends up back here with an insane plea and is sent to a State mental facility like Sterkfontein, he is in a for way worse than anything he can imagine in a State jail.

In another bizarre legal case, a dog in Ireland is standing trial for murder after he indulged in apparently consensual sex with a human woman and she died after an acute allergic reaction to the sex. The dog, an Alsatian, has been remanded in custody since 2006. Its owner will stand trial on its behalf. He, the owner, met the dead woman on a bestiality website and arranged the little rendezvous. In my opinion the dog is the victim here. How can raping a dog be termed consensual? My legal wise spouse informs me that this is some strange Roman law thing. Will the dog get the death sentence? Is he covered by basic human rights? It’s all very murky to me. Apparently you can rape a sheep, but not a dog.

Tell that to the Cape Flats guy, Shrien will sharing a cell with, who was arrested yesterday for doing the dirty with a Jack Russell named Stompie.

The Zombie and the Newspaper Delivery Guy

It’s 11pm on a Sunday night and all is quiet. I wake up suddenly caught in the aftermath of a recurring dream of terror.

Husband: “Are you alright?”
Me: “How do you kill a zombie?”
Husband: “What?”
Me: “Werewolves are silver bullets and vampires are stakes, what about zombies?”
Husband: “Is this a dream thing?”
Me: “Yes.”
Husband: “Hang on I’ll Google it.”

I think that is the most romantic and sweetest thing he has ever done for me. In the middle of the night he Googled how to kill zombies so that I could go back to sleep armed with the knowledge.

It turns out that to kill a zombie you have to kill its brain. So a simple decapitation won’t work. You have to chop off its cranium. Apparently grenade launchers, blunt objects like a baseball bat and fire are also zombie killers. I went back into REM and nuked the childlike little zombie monsters with lighter fluid and Lion matches. Thank God for Google. Although I wished I had had a Bic. I couldn’t get the stupid matches to light. The thing is you can only do so much preparation for a nightmare and obviously my subconscious didn’t think to provide a suitably powerful incendiary device. Perhaps my subconscious is powered by Eskom?

Now there’s a quandary, Eskom. Everybody must have access to electricity. Great. The thing is when you price it so high that the potential to receive power is offset by the reality of a shrinking budget, no-one gets any. If I am struggling then so is the mother living in a shack in Alex.

Once more I am struck with the latent ennui of suburban living. In the locations the communities get together, they form a committee, they write a petition and then they march. Marching involves burning tyres and then setting fire to the elected councilors’ homes. While I don’t advocate this form of vigilantism, the fact this they made on to the front page of the newspaper and now everyone knows how pissed off they are and the power they have to make things happen.

In the suburbs, it doesn’t work like that. In the suburbs we huff and puff about it and say things: “Hah! Somebody should do something.” We might write an email to our local councilor assuming we even know who they are and that’s about it. Bugger all happens, the prices go up and the service goes down and we hire private companies to do what the municipal ones should be doing but don’t. So, we accept it. Perhaps we should burn some tyres? Except that in suburbia its every man for himself and there is no sense of community responsibility.

Why does this all piss me off? It pisses me off because in the last year my electricity bill has gone from R300 a month to over R1 200 despite the geyser on a time switch meaning you can only bath in a 30 minute window at 5am, teeny tiny little lightbulbs, turning plugs off everywhere so I have to reset the alarm clock every night and so on. It’s daylight bloody robbery.

It’s all very well going on about alternative power sources, but I can’t stick up a windmill at the cost of R30 000 in my neighbourhood. There are municipal by laws about this kind of thing. The solar geyser despite the rebate is twice the price of the electric one and still needs power anyway. Our borehole is attached to the Juksei river, that is so polluted it practically glows with radioactivity. There is no online gas and the city ran out of gas canisters about a month ago. Thank heavens we cut down some trees or we’d be freezing our butts off. Sorry global warming, but I’m using the only sustainable fuel source I have right now. Perhaps I can rig up a large hamster wheel and make my children run on it for 2 hours a day to recharge the batteries. That would probably count as child labour.

Child labour always seems a little odd to me. Of course I don’t want little 5 year olds working in factories and so on, but as a kid I had a driving urge to earn some money. After all I needed a Barbie doll and the only way I was going to get one was by earning some cash. I washed cars, picked up dog poo and other unsavoury tasks and was paid substantially less than minimum wage for it, but lapped up those shiny silver 50c pieces like a pirate would a Spanish doubloon. My first real job was at 13 and I worked in the local library every Saturday morning for about R3.50 an hour putting away books. I loved it.

My husband started delivering papers on his bicycle at the age of 9. He took himself off to Europe and bought a motorcycle with his earnings in the end. These experiences were key in shaping our personalities, our ambition and our understanding that you have to work for the things you want in life, they don’t just get delivered in the beaks of storks.

My children don’t get pocket money. They clean my car and I pay them the R35 I pay the car wash. They have a pretty good understanding of value and their sales and negotiation skills are second only to Walmart. Still, I have to very careful about this, if the powers that be found out, they’d cart me off in chains for abusing my children. Considering I just got fleeced R25 for a front tooth, I think that’s pretty rich. At least I pay my lot for doing chores, I don’t expect them to do it for gratis.

I realised this weekend that each day I learn something new and it is inevitably from small children. I think I shall be keeping track of these little gems of insight. I had a chat last night with a 7 year old boy who informed me that school is the worst possible torture. He can read and write already and deeply resents being talked to and treated like a 3 year old by his teacher. He is remarkably bright and finds school unutterably boring. He loves playing music and enjoys sport, but as the only child in his class who can tell the time and tie his shoelaces, spends most of his day watching the clock like a grown up office drone.

I tried to placate him with same pearl of wisdom that other mothers keep giving me, “You just have to suffer through it.” Except, why should he? Why should he be bored to tears? Why should he have to suffer through something that should be inspiring and fun? At age 7 he is having the excitement of learning crushed out of him and forced down to the mediocre standard of national education. It is shocking.

Our conversation continued on to what he would like for Christmas and his birthday.
Small boy aged 7: “It’s very strange, but during the year I think of things I want, but when it comes to my birthday I realise I have everything I really want.”
Me: “Well, what about something you really want to do?”
Small boy aged 7: “Well, I’ve kind of done everything I want right now.”
We concluded with an agreement that he would get his friends to bring a bag of dog food instead of a present so he could take it to the SPCA on his birthday and they could all play with the puppies.

How sweet is that?

Enlightened and empowered

On the first day there was nothing.
On the second day there was nothing.
And then I called out, “Let there be light!”
And there was light.

The problem with subdivisions is that the numbers are all the same except for the little a, b or c’s attached. This means that when the electricity company sends out a technician (who can work with high voltage but is not necessarily literate) they quite often make a mistake. This one landed me in the dark with a limited supply of hot water.

Arriving home in the driving rain on Tuesday evening I discovered the house without power. This meant that I stood in the rain staring pathetically through the non-operational electric gate at a house in total darkness. I am nothing if not enterprising. With a plastic coathanger and a little elbow grease I managed to lift the gate of its track and made it to the front door a little soggy, but still feeling quite proud of myself. Apply the old adage about pride and a fall here.

Briskly efficient I lit candles and deposited offspring in the remains of the hot water to get themselves somewhat cleaner. Then I decided to make dinner. There I hit a snag. Where, oh where had the gas stove gone? I was not about to be foiled. I have a Weber and half a bag of charcoal and the SAS survival guide.

The first step in making a fire is to find wood. No wood. Well plenty of wood it is just all completely sodden thanks to two days of rain. Never mind. I have plenty of paper and cardboard ready for recycling. I placed a pizza box in the bottom of the Weber and filled it with charcoal. Then I packed the Weber full of more pizza boxes added a candle and lit it. Remember Ragged the Gerbil? In retrospect lighting the match was a bad idea.

In the end I admitted defeat and messaged the man of the house in deepest darkest Africa. He told me where to find the gas bottle and after singing my fingers there too I finally managed to make some 2 minute noodles. I would have called Mr Delivery, but Telkom hasn’t fixed the line yet and my Crackberry died soon after the gas bottle discovery. Also, I needed to prove to myself and my progeny that I am a strong, independent woman of the 21st century. Epic fail.

Singed and smoky I arrived at work a little the worse for wear and spent most of the day on the phone to Eskom in obsequious courtesy and finally impassioned begging. All to no avail. The power was still off when I got home last night. This is where my Roedean education and South African “boer maak ‘n plan” attitude cam to the fore. I grabbed some wire cutters, opened by electricity box, cut the cord and turned my power back on.

Eureka! We have light!